Once I have confirmed availability, a 20% non-refundable deposit is required to reserve your requested date and time. Until that formality is taken care of, the appointment remains an inquiry rather than a commitment. I accept deposits exclusively via Zelle, Cashapp, or Bitcoin only.
Our first exchange sets the tone for everything that follows. When reaching out, please include your full name, along with the essential details of your proposed visit: where you would like to meet, your preferred date and time, and the anticipated duration of our time together.
Please provide one of the following with your inquiry : LinkedIn profile displaying your full name and a recognizable photograph. A company website with a publicly accessible employee directory connecting your name and professional position with a headshot. Another credible, independently verifiable source that clearly establishes a connection between your name and your likeness. If you've somehow managed to maintain a wonderfully digital-free existence, a valid government-issued photo ID is perfectly acceptable
another option ... you may request my three hour date experience. We will begin our meeting at a public restaurant of my choosing, where we can get comfortable. If the chemistry is right, we can continue the date at a private location at a five star hotel where I am most comfortable, taken care of by you. If you are interested in this option, please send a thoughtful inquiry.
On the day of our appointment, kindly have the remaining balance prepared in cash. If we are greeting in public, you may tuck the money into a gift bag, book or a card. Please do not arrive with the expectation that a virtual payment method will be available for the remaining balance. If you would prefer to settle the balance electronically, this must be discussed and approved in advance of our appointment. Additional fees apply for this accommodation.
I do not participate in anything that is unsafe or unhygienic. If I have declined an activity or request on the basis of safety, hygiene, or personal comfort, that decision is final. Any attempts to negotiate or nudge me toward something I have declined will end the booking and no refund will be granted. I already know you will be a perfect gentlemen though!
You may have noticed that I maintain a deliberately understated online presence. This is entirely intentional and an important part of protecting both my personal identity and the private life I maintain beyond my work. For that reason, I uphold a strict no-review policy. If a highly visible online presence, public reviews, or social-media exposure is an important part of what you are seeking, we are simply not the right for one another.
I genuinely enjoy hearing from those I've spent time with!. That said, I ask that most communication remain within my work inbox relate to scheduling, future bookings, or other practical matters. If you would like me to serve as a reference for you, I am happy to pass along a good word to one of my colleagues. I just ask that you let me know ahead of time
Should you find yourself unable to keep our scheduled meeting, I simply ask, as a courtesy, that you provide at least 72 hours’ notice. When a cancellation is made with less than 72 hours’ notice, the full booking fee is due as a token of appreciation for the time I have set aside for you. In any circumstances, the deposit remains non-refundable and non-transferrable. If you would prefer to reschedule, I would be delighted to welcome you another day with a new deposit.
If I become sick before our date, rare but no one is exempt from the inconvenient flu, your deposit will be graciously returned to your original method of payment, along with my sincerest apologies and hopes to find a new day worth the wait!